Having her home will make it easier for you to see that she is getting the care you want her to have. But be sure to make time for YOU, Glenn. I know whereof I speak - I took care of my Mom at home here for 7 years. The last year or so was particularly difficult, and I was at it 24/7/365. My "escape" was to go get a fast-food burger and large drink and go park by the ocean and enjoy it for an hour. It really helped me reset my "stress meter" to do that. So please find something that will give you a break and then go do that!