I think it would be worthwhile to start at the beginning.
Was the beer you brewed an extract kit?
What is the volume in the fermentor?
What was the estimated OG of the beer?
Did you do a partial boil and then add the top off water to the fermentor?
What yeast did you use?
If this was a partial boil with topping off in the fermentor, your 1.060 SG reading most likely was from a poor mix of the boiled wort and the top off water. This is not a problem because the yeast would take care of the mixing when they began to work.
The poor mix of the boiled wort and top off water would be a result of less than adequate aeration.
A 1.049 brew would need a target pitch rate of 172 billion cells. A Wyeast smack pack produced in mid November would have approximately 57 billion cells. The yeast would have required a starter to begin a good ferment.
http://www.brewersfriend.com/yeast-pitch-rate-and-starter-calculator/
Your LHBS should have been ready to offer advice rather than just needing to make a sale.
There is still hope though, but need the questions answered.