Oh my god. Why did you buy a kegging system and not read about kegging beer beforehand? When you keg there are pretty much three options:
1) put the beer in the keg. pressurize the keg and then quickly carbonate it by shaking it. Co2 will not enter the beer unless it is already cold. But if it is cold then you can have carbonated beer in 14 minutes. Crank it to 30 psi and shake it for 10 minutes. Afterwards you'l have sime-carbonated beer.
2) Set it at 30psi for 3-4 days then crank it down to 10-15 psi after that (+/- purge)? you'll have good stuff. you may over or under shoot by a bit
3) just put it on 12 psi and fogettaboutit, fuggit; this method produces the best beer actually