I have been unhappily married now for a year, and with the person for four unhappy years, I love my kids, and thought that you just had to get married, thats what you do. I have decided to move on, and I have found someone who makes me happy. No, I have not physically cheated on my wife, but I guess I have emotionally. The house mortgage has both our names, but she cannot afford it on her own. She is a stay at home mom. I plan on giving her the car and just having the loan signed over to her. Help me my beer friends, for I do not know what to do legally next. I know I have to contact Friend of the Court for all the custody stuff, but what else do I do. In MI here it is a 6 month wait from start to finish. Help