CreamyGoodness
Well-Known Member
I'm almost 35. I have always been notoriously bad at keeping up with old friends. Usually, five or ten years down the line someone I used to spend a lot of time hanging out with was a totally different person with different interests, so keeping up seemed almost like vanity.
I mention all this because a friend from college who I lived with over one summer tried a couple times to keep in touch. I would chat with him a while on facebook, and then I'd move on to the next thing, because we didnt really have anything in common any longer. I mean c'mon... Goat-rock now lived in Wyoming for pete's sake. The most recent time he tried was about a month ago I'd say. I was polite, friendly even, but I didnt talk long.
I came to find out just now that at age 35 Joe has passed. Apparently he had been ill for a long time, and though he was on the mend and had been released from the hospital, whatever it was caught up with him.
I dont know what happened to him, or even why he was ill, but I do know I cannot ask the family members who posted the news. I wasnt a very good friend. I feel like I should have made more of an effort to at least chat on facebook more.
Anyway, what's done cant be undone I guess. Whatever I am drinking tonight will be in honor of Joe "Goat-rock" Degraw. While I doubt any of you know him, I encourage you to consider doing the same.
I mention all this because a friend from college who I lived with over one summer tried a couple times to keep in touch. I would chat with him a while on facebook, and then I'd move on to the next thing, because we didnt really have anything in common any longer. I mean c'mon... Goat-rock now lived in Wyoming for pete's sake. The most recent time he tried was about a month ago I'd say. I was polite, friendly even, but I didnt talk long.
I came to find out just now that at age 35 Joe has passed. Apparently he had been ill for a long time, and though he was on the mend and had been released from the hospital, whatever it was caught up with him.
I dont know what happened to him, or even why he was ill, but I do know I cannot ask the family members who posted the news. I wasnt a very good friend. I feel like I should have made more of an effort to at least chat on facebook more.
Anyway, what's done cant be undone I guess. Whatever I am drinking tonight will be in honor of Joe "Goat-rock" Degraw. While I doubt any of you know him, I encourage you to consider doing the same.