I brewed an IPA about a month ago now - it's been in bottle for a week, may not be able to wait more than another week to try my first tester bottle
My brew calculators gave me an estimated OG of 1.063, with IBU at 107. Measured OG came to 1.060 - close enough for government work. I don't have any way to test IBU.
I used 1.5 oz Homegrown Newport at 60min,
split 2 oz each of Mosaic, Citra and Falconer's Flight 3 ways, added at 10min, 5min and flame out (actually I gave it 30 seconds with power before shutting down the fire,
then added 2 oz of Cascade for dryhop for a week.
Smelled great as I was bottling, and even the small sample tasted great. Can't wait.
I have heard differeing opinions on the IBU threshold we can taste - anywhere from 70 to about 100, and I;ve also heard that the max extractable for most homebrewers was about 95 - 100 IBU no matter what else you do.
I don't think you really have to worry about having it too hoppy... depending on the profile you're looking for. You could drop the dryhop down by an ounce or so, and lose some that way, but those hops aren't really giving the bittering - it's more aroma and flavor.