Do whatever method you want, just know that using a stainless pot (or any pot) WILL be far easier than boiling in the flask. With enough flasks out there marketed as the correct glass, but not being so, it's worth doing it. Plus, you don't NEED to use fermcap 99% of the time when you use a pot. Plus, you can actually stir in a pot, I challenge anyone to get a decent sized spoon into a flask.
Plus, if you don't have a gas stove top, you cannot put the flask on top. Well, you can, it just goes against all the warnings you'll see about using them ONLY with gas/flame. Of course, if you're going to do a stepped starter, then you only have the option on the first step.
Personally, I have zero issues using a pot to make the starter wort. No breaking, no burning, no issues of any kind. If I'm going to make more than ~2L of starter wort, I simply use my 8qt pot to do the cook.
BTW, even a few minute boil is advisable with starters. You don't need to boil like you would a batch of beer. Anything over 10 minutes is beyond over-kill. I normally do 5-10 minutes cook time on mine to get everything into solution. Plus, if I want, I can toss in a packet of crappy dry yeast (coopers or muntons) to kill it and turn it into food for my good yeast.