For a while now I have known my marriage is going down a path that no one wants to admit. We are growing apart, our interests just aren't the same as they once were. I'm okay with this, truly I am. I understand this happens. We are staying together simply out of convenience. We don't fight and it's not terrible to spend time with her. Yes we have discussed this and are both on the same page. I choose to take a second job in order to get myself financially stable to be on my own. I wasn't looking for anyone else the thought didn't even cross my mind. Then one day a few months ago I run into a woman who fits what my mind tells me is the perfect woman for me. Here is where things get sticky. No I have not been out with her. There is no cheating going on here. The sticky part comes in because she is also married. She to is unhappy with her marriage. We have talked and like each other but neither of us is willing to cross any lines. I find she is on my mind all the time. From the minute I wake up until I go to bed. I can't get her out of my mind. This is not a good time to get involved but, I want to. I find myself going out of my way to see her just for a few minutes. I feel like a kid with a high-school crush. I smile on the inside when she sends me a simple text. I am really confused on what to do next. I have no children with my wife but the woman I am interested in has 3. I don't want to cause her any problems but I can't stop trying to find ways to spend time with her. What to do?