If you have two pumps for a single level stand, fly sparging isn't any more work and I actually think it's easier. It all really comes down to what type of process you are comfortable with and what works for you. Nothing wrong with batch sparging and it's really just a matter of preference.
BrewCommune meets in different places. We just had our Christmas party at the Bruery. We sometimes meet at Out of the Park Pizza in Fullerton, Addison Homebrew or other places. We also do club brew days that are hosted at someones house. Those are only open to paid members, but the regular meetings are open to everyone. We also have a booth at the CA Homebrew Festival every year. It's a good group of people and a lot of knowledge sharing going on. Check out the online forum at BrewCommune.com.
My next brew day will be sometime during the week right after Christmas. If you're interested in coming by and checking it out, let me know. We usually have a group of us hanging out on the brew days sharing ideas and just BS'ing. Lot's of talk on brewing, so it's usually a good time to learn.
I'm using the 6", 10 tip wok burners (on NG). I know others that are using the BG-14 burners on NG and they work very well also. My burners work excellent, but they are loud and I may move to the BG-14's down the road because of that.