Also there is not a lot you can do with the waste water, other than flush the toilet, or pour down the drain.
Or water your plants
or wash your car
or wash your windows
or water your garden
There are lots of things you can do with the waste water, and if you're really worried about it you can add a pump that recirculates the water under high pressure for no waste.
I'm in Seattle, and water is cheap. Not sure what you guys are paying, but here's how it pencils out for me:
The base rate for 1" supply from the city is $85 every 2 months, but I'm charged that anyway, so it doesn't really contribute to this discussion.
Water is charged somewhere between $2.71 and $5.59 per ccf depending on usage.
A ccf is 100 cubic feet of water. There are 748 gallons in 1 ccf.
Let assume I use the max amount of water, and I'm charged the full $5.59 per ccf... that is $.0074 per gallon (about 3/4 of a penny per gallon).
I collect my RO water in a 55 gallon plastic container, and assuming there is a 1:4 water/waste ratio, I need to run 55 x 5, or 275 gallons to fill the container.
275 x $.0074 is $2.03.
It costs more than that just to start my truck, and running to the store for water every time you brew is a pain.
Don't forget that it's always good to have large amounts of potable water on hand for emergencies.
And yes, you can get a quality RO system for $100 on ebay.