I just went through my first bottling day over the weekend and it was easy. Personally, I put as many bottles as I could into my dishwasher and let it run, NO soap. Did this as soon as my bottles arrived and placed them upside down back in the box so no bugs/spiders could make a home. After quite a bit of research, I purchased a bottle tree and a sanitizer injector. This made bottling a breeze. A couple pumps on the injector and then placed the bottle on the tree, did this for as many bottles as I needed and by the time I sanitized my last bottle, the first row was ready for beer. Granted I used primarily 22oz bomber bottles, but it probably took me an hour and a half. Bottling wand was also nice but mine is bent and leaked so I still had to close the spigot between bottles but still gave me better control of the flow. I took my time, wasn't in a hurry and enjoyed drinking a beer while filling.
Don't sweat the process, just make sure the bottles are clean and sanitized, then enjoy the time with your beer.