WCrane
Well-Known Member
I think the 1/3 idea for "bad" teacher and "bad parents is about right from my experience. With 1/3 thats in the middle and the other 1/3 that excel.
Ok i'm going to try to dust of the teacher skills and bring this back to the OP's post. Full circle
In the situation the op described the parents were lacking a bit, and when the OP jumped in to influence the behavior, it did not have the affect it "should of". Now if the parents where "with it" Kid would of stop or the parents would of redirected the child or found a way to involve the child in the activity. But since the parents are not on the ball every time the kid comes to the OPs house, the OP may have to step in (like a teacher has to with a distruptive student). it ruined what could of been an great evening
A parent should strive to be the main teacher in a child's life, and a teacher is like an added bonus.
Here's a bit of a stretch but To use a beer analogy parents are the the malts, teachers are the hops. Parents make up a large portion of what is in the beer, hops are that little extra that polishes off the beer. In the right proportions its amazing.
When either lacks the final product lacks. I think more so when the malt is lacking. But a bad beer can ruin the party for everyone.
Ok i'm going to try to dust of the teacher skills and bring this back to the OP's post. Full circle
In the situation the op described the parents were lacking a bit, and when the OP jumped in to influence the behavior, it did not have the affect it "should of". Now if the parents where "with it" Kid would of stop or the parents would of redirected the child or found a way to involve the child in the activity. But since the parents are not on the ball every time the kid comes to the OPs house, the OP may have to step in (like a teacher has to with a distruptive student). it ruined what could of been an great evening
A parent should strive to be the main teacher in a child's life, and a teacher is like an added bonus.
Here's a bit of a stretch but To use a beer analogy parents are the the malts, teachers are the hops. Parents make up a large portion of what is in the beer, hops are that little extra that polishes off the beer. In the right proportions its amazing.
When either lacks the final product lacks. I think more so when the malt is lacking. But a bad beer can ruin the party for everyone.